Because five years ago, 9-22-2021, I hit “post” here for the first time.

I hoped to find law students who might need my tutoring help.
(I also secretly hoped someone would notice me and offer me a “real” job.)

What I found instead was a professional home, a workplace, and eventually all of you.

And THAT feels worth celebrating.

🛑 The WRONG WAY is to:

-Pick a random lawyer
-Learn nothing about them
-Send them a generic message
-Explain you want to “pick their brain”
-Make clear you seek a 1-time transaction
-Suggest that they “jump on” a 60-min Zoom

3.7+ GPA.
Three years of experience.
Impressive volunteer work and leadership.

Yet she had received not one interview through OCI.

Her career-services office could not understand why. Neither could I—until I saw the actual résumé.

The Habit: sticking a word in quotation marks, then stuffing it in parentheses (hereinafter, a "Parenthetical").

Once you start suffering from this Habit, you can't stop, which is a condition I call can’t-stop-itis ("Can't-Stop-Itis").

——Exhibit A ("Exhibit A")——

and 3 years from now,
only 1 of you will be here.”

Old law-school deans apparently used to say that to 1Ls on their first day of law school.

Maybe they thought it would incentivize students to work hard from Day 1, but boy doesn’t that quote miss the boat—

Here’s what I want you to think about instead:

"When doing all these readings, I find myself unable to really comprehend what I'm reading, even after a few rereads and taking hours upon hours for just one class. Do you have any tips for improving comprehension while not taking forever to get through all this material?"

Here is the letter I wrote back—

It’s for her, and for every new law student who is spending hours and hours reading and worrying that everyone else somehow "gets it."

I was skeptical about Jimmy. Jimmy Lai

And I underestimated him.

In fact, when he sent me a copy of his book, “Quietly Influential,” all I could think was:

▪️ What did some random Oklahoma lawyer who’d started posting years after me have to teach me about LinkedIn?

Wow, see the difference it makes:

-- To err is human. However, to forgive is divine.

-- To err is human. To forgive, however, is divine. ‼

Try this edit today!

Learn them now so you don’t lose points when it counts.

1. In the legal world, we spell the word “judgment” without an “e.”

—> Change your Word settings so they autocorrect “judgement” to “judgment” when you type.

Although both spellings work in the non-legal context, now that you’re joining the legal world, you should probably just start using the “judgment” spelling in everything you write.

It lures you in with the promise of high grades, a job at a big firm that pays well, and a credential that makes your school look good.

And it is very hard to climb out of once it has you.

Before you know it, you're stuck—convinced Big Law is your only path to success, even if it was never part of your plan to begin with.

It’s memorable. It’s dramatic. It’s . . . technically flawed.

👉 Grammatically, the sentence says the bar exam died three times.

Why? Because of a dangling modifier.

Make this one small change to your LinkedIn headline—and you will immediately stand out.

Most profiles say:
“Incoming law student.”

That tells me almost nothing.

Now compare:

“Incoming law student interested in Labor & Employment law, ABC Law School.”

Today is Day 6—and last—of my Dear 1L® 2026 summer cohort for incoming 1Ls.

It’s been amazing!!
 
I built the course to address two surprises that will otherwise blindside new students:
 
🔹 1: Recruiting is happening before you even start.

Greta (my baby, but now 23) just released her first album.

The title is “Baby Fat,” and it’s fantastic.

I hope you will check it out on Spotify.

So far, my favorite songs are “We Both Know,” “Sunshine,” and “Just My Luck!”

But this one brought me such delight.

So we noticed a small nest on a high shelf, right by our front door.

And day after day, we waited.

No activity.

So we started to think it was empty.

Deserted.